Ready For Wedding |
|
Let’s face it, when you are asked to be a bridesmaid your first reaction is jumping with joy and saying YES! You would love nothing more than standing beside her when she exchanges her vows. Well, here’s the surprise, you may have committed the biggest mistake of your life. A wedding can be messy and you can lose your wisdom. So be prepared. Bridesmaid duty starts with the announcement of engagement and end when the bride is off to honeymoon. It is one thing to be happy about your friend’s engagement but dealing with the whole wedding preparation can be stressful. So, here listed are the few point you must consider before jumping out of joy with you friend for her engagement.
Money, a lot of money Bridesmaid title comes with not just the responsibility but also with a lot of expenses. There are so many things you need to invest in like dress, jewellery, makeup, nails, bridal shower, bachelorette party, gift and what not. Be prepared to spend a lot of money to make the bride happy. Moral support Wedding is the stressful time especially for the bride. She has a lot on her plate and she is expected to blow off at a point or two. Give her all the support, as she needs it and be her listening ear. She is in so much stress with wedding preparation; surprise her with the cup of coffee after her long day. You are her bridesmaid because she trustsyou; let it excel throughout the wedding. If you can’t take the heat, never say yes. Always available It doesn’t mean that you have to be available for a single day, NO; bridesmaid is a 24*7 responsibility and so you need to be prepared to be listening to her family drama at 3 AM in the morning as well. You can say bye to your personal life, as it is your friends from the moment you said yes to her. It can irritate you but it will be memorable. Time Before saying yes check whether you have time or not. A bride can need you anywhere anytime; at times you can say no but not all the time. Check your schedule before the bride can kick you out of the post. If you have no time, say no beforehand and attend her wedding as a guest. Bride doesn’t need more stress than she already has. Drama free Don’t stress her mind. Try to be calm and composed. Don’t go running to the bride for everything; keep her out of maximum things as possible. Let her enjoy, it’s her day. She picks a dress you don’t like, just grin and bear with it. Refrain from crying, pouting and winning. Celebrate your friend’s day in the way she wants. You will have your day too. These are the basic things to consider before saying yes to the bride. You are supposed to make her day special not worst and if you can’t do that, you can always say no.
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
AuthorMason Talbot ArchivesCategories |